Tuesday, 21 June 2016

MARRIAGE TIPS FROM CHARLES DENNIS, Esq


There's nothing better than waiting a little longer to marry the right person, than being quickly taken by the wrong person.

Marriage ought to be an everlasting crown, and no-one wishes to be dethroned along the line.

Marriage is the sweetest engagement, though not devoid of its peculiar bitterness, but no-one wishes to be embittered forever.

Do not take the one kept for another, and do not also foolishly abandon yours for another on flimsy reason(s).

When the right person comes or proposes, your inner heart won't fail in signaling you.

Take the beauties of the heart first before considering those of the body. Because the beauties of the body might be regretted in the long run.

Do not be enchanted by only what you see, but mainly what you feel.
There's no human with all the qualities, not even you.

Good morning, friends!

Charles Dennis, Esq.

Things to remember as you go through life....

Remember the following as you go through life.

1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I.

To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really will be good to you. You have to be careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.

2. No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess.

Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you anymore, or when you lose what you wanted the most.

3. Life is short.
When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.

4. Love is nothing but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness.

Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.

5. A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.

One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags !

6. I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither  would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether  you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.

7. You honour your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.

8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years , but could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch !

9. No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.

Friday, 17 June 2016

CREATE YOUR OWN FUTURE

"The very best way to predict the future is to create it." - Peter Drucker 

To get the most or the best out of life is to decide now to prepare and create your own future. What you want and you constantly think of, you equally attract.

Everyday comes with its own opportunity and you have to make good use of it. Make use of the opportunity to achieve your dreams and goals. Start with the little you have. Most wealthy individuals in the world started from very humble beginnings. 

Decide today to be active and not passive. Take charge of your own life today and accept total responsibility of your own life. Dare yourself to make forward steps and face the risk that comes unexpectedly. 

Take this very day as an ample opportunity and start creating your own future.

WHEN TO BE SILENT

WHEN TO BE SILENT . . . 

The Bible
1. Be silent In the heat of
anger - 
(Prov 14:17)
2. Be silent When you don't
have all the facts - 
(Prov 18:13)
3. Be silent When you
haven't verified the story - 
(Deut 17:6)
4. Be silent If your words 
will offend a weaker 
person - 
(1 Cor 8:11)
5. Be silent When it is time 
to listen - 
(Prov 13:1)
6. Be silent When you are 
tempted to make light of 
holy things - 
(Eccl 5:2)
7. Be silent When you are 
tempted to joke about 
sin - 
(Prov 14:9)
8. Be silent If you would be 
ashamed of your words 
later - 
(Prov 8:8
9. Be silent If your words 
would convey the wrong 
impression - 
(Prov 17:27)
10. Be silent If the issue is 
none of your business - 
(Prov 14:10)
11. Be silent When you are 
tempted to tell an 
outright lie - 
(Prov 4:24)
12. Be silent If your words 
will damage someone 
else's reputation - 
(Pro 16:27)
13. Be silent If your words 
will damage a friendship -
 (Prov 16:28)
14. Be silent When you are 
feeling critical - 
(James 3:9)
15. Be silent If you can't say 
it without screaming it - 
(Prov 25:28)
16. Be silent If your words 
will be a poor reflection of the Lord or your friends and family - (1 Pt 2:21-23)
17. Be silent If you may 
have to eat your words 
later -
 (Prov 18:21)
18. Be silent If you have 
already said it more than one time - 
(Prov 19:13)
19. Be silent When you are 
tempted to flatter a 
wicked person -
 (Prov 24:24)
20. Be silent When you are 
supposed to be working 
instead - 
(Prov 14:23)

"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIS SOUL FROM TROUBLES" - 
(Prov 21:23).
"BE STILL, AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD"
 (Ps 46:10)

Sunday, 5 June 2016

INSPIRATION FROM MICHAEL JORDAN

Michael Jordan was born in 1963, in the slums of Brooklyn, New York.

He had four  siblings and his father's earnings were not sufficient to provide for the whole family.

He grew up in a poor neighbourhood. Exposed to mindless violence and heavy discrimination in the slums, he saw for himself only a hopeless future.

His father saw in Michael, a lost soul and decided to do something.

He gave Michael, who was 13 years old, a piece of used clothing and asked: "What do you think the value of this outfit would be?"

Jordan replied,"Maybe one dollar."

His father asked, "Can you sell it for two dollars? If you can sell it, it would mean that you are a big help to your family."

Jordan nodded his head, "I'll try, but no guarantee that I'll be successful."

Jordan carefully washed the cloth clean. Because they didn't have an iron, to smoothen the cloth, he levelled it with a clothes brush on a flat board, then kept it in the sun to dry. The next day, he brought the clothes to a crowded underground station. After offering it for more than six hours. Jordan finally managed to sell it for $2. He took the two dollar bill and ran home.

After that, everyday he looked for used clothing, washed and ironed it, and sold it in the crowd.

More than ten days later, his father again gave him a piece of used clothing, "Can you think of a way you can sell this for 20 bucks?"

Aghast, Jordan said, "How is it possible? This outfit can only fetch two dollars at the most."

His father replied, "Why don't you try it first? There might be a way."

After breaking his head for a few hours, finally, Jordan got an idea.

He asked for cousin's helpto paint a picture of Donald Duck and Mickey Mouse on the garment. Then he tried to sell it in the school where the children of the rich study.

Soon a housekeeper, who was there to pick his master, bought that outfit for his master. The master was a little boy of only 10 years. He loved it so much and he gave a five dollar tip. 25 dollars was a huge amount for Jordan, the equivalent of a month's salary of his father.

When he got home, his father gave him yet another piece of used clothing, "Are you able to resell it at a price of 200 dollars?" Jordan's eyes lit up.

This time, Jordan accepted the clothes without the slightest doubt. Two months later a popular movie actress from the movie "Charlie's Angels", Farah Fawcett came to New York for her Movie promos. After the press conference, Jordan made his way through the security forces to reach the side of Farah Fawcett and requested her autograph on the piece of clothing. When Fawcett saw this innocent child asking for her autograph, she gladly signed it.

Jordan was shouting very excitedly, "This is a jersey signed by Miss Farah Fawcett, the selling price is 200 dollars!" He auctioned off the clothes, to a businessman for a price of 1,200 dollars!

Upon returning home, his father broke into TEARS and said, "I am amazed that you did it My child! You're really great! "

That night, Jordan slept alongside his father. His father said, "Son, in your experience selling these three pieces of clothing, what did you learn about success?"

Jordan replied, "Where there's a will, there's a way."

His father nodded his head, then shook his head, "What you say is not entirely wrong! But that was not my intention. I just wanted to show you that a piece of used clothing which is worth only a dollar can also be increased in value, Then how about us - living & thinking humans? We may be darker and poorer, but what if we CAN increase our VALUE."

This thought enlightened young Jordan. Even a piece of used clothing could be made dignified, then why not me? There is absolutely no reason to underestimate myself.

From then on, Michael Jordan felt that his future would be beautiful and full of hope.

He went on to become the greatest basketball player of all times.

How can I increase my own value?                                                           I am finding it a very interesting thought. I am sure, you too, will --culled from ICC.

Saturday, 4 June 2016

GOOD MORNING TO YOU...

Interesting meaning of 'good morning' 
( We all say Good Morning to others. Do you know the meaning of "GOOD MORNING" ?     

G   Get up.
O   Open your heart.
O   Open your mind.
D   Dedicate your day to God.

M   Meditate on Gods word.
O    Optimise your faith & hope.
R    Rebuke all evils.
N    Never doubt Gods love.
I      Inspire someone
N    Nothing should scare you .
G     Go out with joy.  

So, I say GOOD.  MORNING!

30 BEST QUOTES OF MUHAMMAD ALI , THE PEOPLE'S CHAMPION..

1. "Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee. His hands can't hit what his eyes can't see. Now you see me, now you don't. George thinks he will, but I know he won't.
2. "Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth."
3. "I'm young; I'm handsome; I'm fast. I can't possibly be beat."
4. "Don’t count the days; make the days count."
5. “If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it—then I can achieve it." 
6. “It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am."
7. “It isn’t the mountains ahead to climb that wear you out; it’s the pebble in your shoe.”
8. “If you even dream of beating me you'd better wake up and apologize.”
9. “Braggin' is when a person says something and can’t do it. I do what I say.”
10. "I am the greatest, I said that even before I knew I was."
11. "Only a man who knows what it is like to be defeated can reach down to the bottom of his soul and come up with the extra ounce of power it takes to win when the match is even."
12. "I'm so mean, I make medicine sick."
13. "I should be a postage stamp. That's the only way I'll ever get licked."
14. “Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”
15. “He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.”
16. "A man who views the world the same at 50 as he did at 20 has wasted 30 years of his life.”
17. “If they can make penicillin out of moldy bread, they can sure make something out of you.”
18. "I shook up the world. Me! Whee!"
19. “I hated every minute of training, but I said, ‘Don’t quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion.'”
20. “At home I am a nice guy: but I don’t want the world to know. Humble people, I’ve found, don’t get very far.”
21. "A man who has no imagination has no wings."
22. "He’s (Sonny Liston) too ugly to be the world champ. The world champ should be pretty like me!"
23. "I am the astronaut of boxing. Joe Louis and Dempsey were just jet pilots. I'm in a world of my own."
24. “I’ve wrestled with alligators. I’ve tussled with a whale. I done handcuffed lightning. And throw thunder in jail.”
25. "Hating people because of their color is wrong. And it doesn't matter which color does the hating. It's just plain wrong."
26. “It’s not bragging if you can back it up.”
27. "I'm the most recognized and loved man that ever lived cuz there weren't no satellites when Jesus and Moses were around, so people far away in the villages didn't know about them."
28. "It's just a job. Grass grows, birds fly, waves pound the sand. I beat people up."
29. “I’m not the greatest, I’m the double greatest.”
30. “Live everyday as if it were your last because someday you're going to be right.”


Thursday, 2 June 2016

MORNING WISDOM; "GIVE IT TIME."

GIVE IT TIME...

When someone comes and tells you, I can't sleep without you, I love you the way you are and I can put up with your good and bad attitude. Before you commit your heart please GIVE IT TIME.

When You just met someone today and feel like marrying him/her tomorrow, before you do remember you needed to GIVE IT TIME

When you visit your uncle and you will stay there for 2months
holidays, don't be carried away that they serve you your preferred food and give you hot water to bath during your first two days and you start making arrangement to relocate to their house, First GIVE IT TIME.

When a brother visits you and wakes you up by his shouting of prayer from 12am to 6am, please don't shut him down, first GIVE IT TIME.

When a bro joins your fellowship in First year and he is in every group/wing, please don't rush and make him a leader rather GIVE IT TIME.

When you enter a new environment and everybody worship you and eat your mess don't be carried away just GIVE IT TIME.

When someone comes with a new business with unbelievable
promises, please before you involve your money, first GIVE IT TIME.

When you see a new church in town and you hear their waves, before you conclude about how hot they are first GIVE IT TIME.

Finally when you are in a cross road of decisions, you don't know what to do, ask the people or person involved to please give you time.

The wise priest in the Bible in Acts told them to leave Peter and John...Rather, give them time.
You can be good in giving people tests and trying out who they are...some people know how to pass them all but the test of time they fail.

Time tests Love and proves it.
Time tests businesses and authenticates it. Time tests spirituality and reveals it.
Time, a good tester.

Don't say that NEPA in your area is now the best until you have GIVEN IT TIME. Lols

Your Uncle or Father told You that you are useless and worthless and can't amount to anything, just laugh it away and ask them to GIVE YOU TIME.

Quote me... Consistency with time is the true test of Efficiency.

Time is a tester
Time is an AUTHENTICATOR
Time is a REVEALER
TIME IS STILL A MATTER
Thanks for giving this long post a TIME.

May your day be blessed and inspired!

MORNING WISDOM

A RABBIT runs, jumps, moves faster and lives for only fifteen (15) years while 
A TORTOISE doesn't even attempt any of such activities but lives for 150 years or more?

LESSON: Life is not about rushing, comparism and doing what others are doing but rather keep calm and do what is right and what you are called to do. They may live in the same forest with the same color and play together but we must remember that we will have age mate, class mate, school mate, office mates but there is no 'DESTINY MATE' in this life.
Be who you are called to be,
love who you are and thank God for your special journey which may not look like others!!
This is the simplest way to succeed in life!!
God Bless you, and keep looking forward  because  those beside you are not going where you are exactly going. 

Be a source of inspiration to someone today...
Have a great Morning !! 

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