Feel The Good Friday; Links to all you need to know...

https://fest-wishes.com/friday/?n=Kiara+Inspires+

http://www.biblestudytools.com/topical-verses/bible-verses-about-good-friday/

http://m.ndtv.com/offbeat/good-friday-2017-history-and-significance-1680700

THE WIND OF LIFE

When the wind blows, the branches in a tree will dance and laugh because it's strength is from the root.

Try to have an alternative.
Never rely solely on your self.
Have a support system in as much you try all by yourself.
Find a shoulder to lean on.
Find a root to hang on if the wind of life blows.

THE VALENTINE TRUTH

THE ORIGIN, ESSENCE AND SPIRITUAL IMPLICATIONS OF VALENTINE DAY:
During the third century, an oppressive Roman Emperor called Emperor Claudius II had made it a capital punishment (death) to worship and serve Christ.
He had decreed the Romans to serve and worship his gods, and deprived the young Roman soldiers of getting married.
But an elderly Christian had stood his ground for his faith and had insisted on serving Jesus Christ and preaching the love of God to the young soldiers.
This was considered treason against the government.
He was arrested, sentenced to death and jailed. In the last weeks of his life in the prison, the jailer (prison commander) who observed that he was very learned and possessed very good Christian character, brought his blind daughter to him to be giving her lessons.
He taught her about God and told her many Roman histories and stories from the Bible. He taught her the love of God. The blind girl got so used to the elderly Christian prisoner. On his last night he left a note for Julia, the blind girl, encouraging her to love God and serve Him. And in ending the note, he wrote: "From your Valentine".
His death sentence was carried out the next day, February 14, 270 A.D.
*The name of this martyr was Valentinus*, a man who died for standing for the Preaching of the Christ and teaching people about the love of God.
So, for his love for God, he was regarded as 'Saint'.
Archaeologists have unearthed a Roman catacomb; an ancient church dedicated to Saint Valentine. During 496 AD, the Pope marked February 14 as celebration in honor of his martyrdom.
*February 14, is known as Valentine Day. But the essence of Valentine Day historically was a celebration in honor of the martyrdom of a devoted preacher, Valentinus, who stood on his faith in Christ against the devilish idolatry decrees of a Godless Emperor.*
*He preached Christ to the Roman soldiers and spread the love for God and humanity when it was a crime to do so. The day he was martyred was declared "Valentine Day". February 14, 270 AD.*
However, the devil has rewritten history today. All over the world, the history has successfully been erased and rewritten the way the devil wanted. The reason for the DAY has been blotted out from people's memory and a minor aspect of the whole story had been blown beyond proportion. The little card note Valentinus had left behind for Julia, her young beloved convert, whom she taught, preached to and prayed for, had ended with: "From Your Valentine".
*On February 14, in the year 270.AD, somebody died for Christ and is now in Heaven, but on February 14, 2017, several people will die spiritual death.*

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY. [Show Some Love]

THERE IS ONLY ONE HAPPINESS IN THIS LIFE: TO LOVE AND BE LOVED.

Happy Valentine's day!!

From Kiara Inspires..
Warmest love...

NONE LIKE GOD.

Mother, "My son my eyes are drunk with death my time is near please take good care of your brothers when on this earth my time is gone."

Son,"Nothing shall happen to you mama for if you go we shall never have any comforter again."

Mother" smiled and spoke; "my son you are wrong..there is a man above the earth who sits in comfort of the cloud and by HIS wills all creatures come and go..HE is the man that comforts  better than me or anyone.

Lesson,"though a mother's love is indisputable yet there can never be someone that can dispute God.

Kiarainspires.

WHEN RMD HIMSELF GETS YOU MOTIVATED... " A MESSAGE WRITTEN FOR THE MALE GENDER"

Hello dear friends and inspiring readers of Kiara Nuellz's inspirational blog.

Happy Sunday to you all and I do hope you are indeed having the best of it.

Earlier today I was just going through the internet and then I came across a message from RMD, Richard Mofe Damijo who happens to be a well known Nollywood actor and politician.

Now, in his message, I must say he was indeed inspiring the youth most especially the male "gender." 

So, I decided to share his heartwarming message for you all to read and hope to get you inspired because I believe we sure do learn everyday.
So here below is his message which he shared on his gram page written to give you insight. 
He wrote, ' TAG A SON… Dear Son, I’m writing to you today because there is no day “internationally” set aside for the “boy child”, so, tired of looking on in horror as you constantly shock and embarrass me, this is from daddy to you.

I’m shocked at how many of you carry yourselves here on social media. I am shocked at the things you L O L at. I am worried at the way you speak to and about women.

I am frightened at the kinds of things that inspire and motivate you.

I am concerned that the women who get your attention are not the virtuous, brilliant types but the frivolous party, skimpily clad ones.

I am disappointed to see that the pictures you fall over yourselves double tapping are not the inspirational quotes or of clean, beautiful modest women but of women with their breasts, thighs and bottoms spilling over.

I cringe at how many of you blatantly use swear and curse words at women like it makes you cool.

I am distraught to see that many of you insinuate that a man who loves and stays with one woman is a wimp, that a man who publicly displays and speaks about his love for his woman is a “jew man”, that a man who is more interested in deeply spiritual and intellectual pursuits should be shamed…

I am worried son, deeply worried. My dear son, being uncouth, indecent, unintelligent is NOT cool and contrary to what you think, the man who stays on social media looking for Unclad ladies to validate, smart people to shame, brilliant people to tear down, celebrities to attack are NOT men but little boys battling low self esteem issues.

A real man loves God and is not ashamed to show it. He loves and respects women. He does not ask for nudes and if any misguided woman sends him her nudes respectfully deletes it and not use it as a blackmailing tool. A real man reads, yes, he reads a lot. He picks his mentors wisely, thinks before he speaks and reads his comments over and over before he hits send.

Dear son, do not let the “anonymity” of social media make you a fool rather use it to shine and be kind, reasonable and sensible at all times because that is the man I desire to see you be. Love, Daddy #RMDSaysSo

Thanks for reading, and don't forget we get better by lifting others.

Stay tuned for more inspirational messages and for sure Stay Blessed my dear reader....wish you a great week ahead....

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AN EMOTIONAL LETTER TO YOU......

✍ . ```EMOTIONAL LETTER TO YOU...```

🚏 _TO THE MARRIED..._

Congratulations, I cherish your togetherness.
Meanwhile, remember, love is not about "it's your fault", but all about "I'm sorry". Love is not about "where are you", but all about "I'm right here". Love is not about "how could you", but all about "I understand". Love is not about "I wish you were", but all about "I'm thankful you are."

🚏 _TO THE ENGAGED..._

Congratulations too as you have resolved together to go into this perpetual emotional journey. But remember, the true measure of
compatibility is not the years spent together, but how good you are for each other. Try as much as possible to work it out, it's one of the best feeling in life. It's worth it.

🚏 _TO THE NOT-SO-SINGLE..._

Doing emotional "interview" by having numerous partners in order to pick the most "qualified candidate" does not work most times. Stick with someone your heart and soul yearn for, not the one your eyes search for. Love is not about becoming someone else's "perfect person.", it is about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

🚏 _TO THE "I'M-IN-LOVE"..._

I will say kudos to you too. But remember love sometimes is not all about happiness, but
sacrificing your happiness for someone else's weaknesses. Also have it in mind that it won't be smooth sailing just like the day you both agreed to go into a relationship, so be prepared to make symbiotic sacrifices for that ultimate goal - marriage. Also be warned to reduce online "advertisement" of your "boo", most times it's det

🚏 _TO THE SINGLES...._

Love is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just patiently
wait, it will come to you when you least expected it. Love will give you the best in life and glow your spirit only when you give it to someone who is really worth it and can reciprocate it. So take your time and choose wisely.

🚏 _TO THOSE SEARCHING..._

To my "course-mates" well done. I know you are searching for your soul mate, if I get you right,
that means someone who thinks, behaves, dresses, eats, drinks, sleeps, dances, walks, reads, feels and likes all the same things as you right? Well, it might work in a Nollywood or a Hollywood movie, but in reality it's not possible. And besides, its not a healthy type of relationship, you know why? It will grow out of unresolved insecurities. When your partner's
thoughts, feelings and behaviours mirror your own, you're validated by the illusion of sameness and it's a way of avoiding uncertainty within the relationship. Eventually, when there is a difference of opinion, you feel threatened and invalidated. Before you know it, you will begin to doubt the relationship, and may even think your partner is a fake. Aunty/Brother, don't kill off your relationship by expecting your partner to think, feel and behave the same way you do, instead, celebrate the differences and make yourself open to diversity. When you do that, your relationship can become an exciting journey of growth and self-discovery.

🚏 _TO THE HEARTBROKEN..._

Hmmmmmn. According to my friend, nothing last forever, not even aboki's perfume.
Heartbreaks last as long as you want it, and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge
is not how to survive heartbreaks, but how to learn from them. Though most times, it's difficult to let go, but what will be will be; if you are meant to be together he/she will surely come back, but if not, there's nothing you can do. Move on.

🚏 _TO THE NAIVE..._

Yes. You keep reading love stories, watching love movies and listening to love songs. But know one thing, most of the authors of love
books are either divorced, or having issues with their unions, most of the singers of love songs
are not even in relationships, and most of the actors and actresses in love movies don't even
believe in love because they have either not experienced it or have been "dealt with" in the
past. Therefore don't believe all you read, listen to or watch. Take my simple advice; fall in love
but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to be too demanding, get hurt, but never keep the pain.

🚏 _TO THE POSSESSIVE..._

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else, but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you. Don't be too attached. Don't give your happiness to your lover, give yourself much joy, your happiness should not be dependent on your partner. The phrases and statements like "She is the joy of my life", "He is the reason why I'm breathing", "Without her I'm worthless", "He is my world" etc are not practical. Nobody can give you a better joy than the one you create for yourself. Nobody is your world, you are your own world. Yes, love increases your happiness,
but the key to your happiness and joy is in your hands. Don't hold love too tight, it might get choked.

🚏 _TO THOSE AFRAID TO PROFESS AND CONFESS LOVE..._

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel. Tell him/her how you feel, he/she might just be waiting for
you to talk. Nothing stops a woman from approaching the man she loves. The world has gone beyond "rural" emotion. If you love me, tell
me.

🚏 _TO THE CHEATS..._

Behind every untrusting girl is a boy who lied, cheated and broke his promises to her. Behind every untrusting guy is a girl who toiled with his heart. I'm not encouraging infidelity, but don't let us be too quick to judge; if witches were given time to explain why they did what they did, some of them might be right (a proverb in Okene). But one thing the cheats need to know too is that, they are not doing anyone any harm but themselves.

🚏 _TO THOSE CHANGING PARTNERS..._

Sometimes within you, you feel justified by changing partners like clothes just because of
few amendable "sins" that you too cannot even exonerate yourself from, I plead with you to have second thought. You may think you are still young and beautiful, but think about it, if you keep changing courses in a higher institution; sometimes after a year studying a course, sometimes you have spent like 4 semesters, sometimes you are almost through before you "realise" that the course is "boring", tell me, when will you graduate? When will you even master the discipline? Relationships are not meant to be projects, if you are spending all your time repairing, fixing, upgrading and changing, please have a second thought. Besides, you are not getting younger, every minutes of your life counts.

🚏 _TO THOSE AFRAID TO INVEST IN LOVE..._

Just like business, love itself needs investment before it can grow. All the hype about "She no want Designer", "She no want Ferrarri" stuff are pure slogans. The female species that doesn't want money and good things of life left the
surface of the earth around 1340BC, so if any man is looking for females that doesn't want
anything but love will need to consult archeologists. Both males and females are gold diggers, the different is that some of us are heavy diggers, some of us are lazy diggers, some of us are occasional diggers while some of us are simple diggers, but we all dig! Love
without "financial empowerment" no matter how little will shrink with time. So please invest in your partner and you will reap the reward of your investment. Love alone is not enough, add money to it and see a better result.

🚏 _TO ALL MY FRIENDS..._

My wish for you is a man/woman whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-ending, never-changing, ever-upgrading, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish..

This message was sourced from an unknown author. I hope it enlightens you more...thanks...

Don't forget to always share with others......
Warm regards....
www.kiaranuellz.blogspot.com. 

A SAD MEMORY OR A SWEET ONE?

While in the Nigerian Law School, Enugu campus, a girl fell in love with me. I could feel the intensity of her love for me.
I didn't give her much attention, because 'I wasn't (in Enugu) on a pleasure trip, but on a business trip' (study). She loved me and everything I did.

However, I left Enugu upon the completion of my programme. She missed me. We talked several times on phone, but obviously I wasn't ready for marriage. I was a year old at the Bar when she called to tell me that a man was seeking her hand in marriage. She asked if I was there really or should she accept the man's proposal. I told her to go on, because I wasn't ready.

It was never easy for her, tho, but as the only child of her late parents, she grew up with her grandmother and needed to comply with the pressure of settling down quickly. She eventually married the man.

Thereafter, I lost her contact. But, on a certain day, I got a WhatsApp chat from her. She chatted to tell me that she had put to bed a twin. But, one amazing thing she said was that on the kind permission of her husband, she named one of the babies after me (Charles); in remembrance of whom I was to her. She told the husband everything about me and the man accepted her request.

Now, the questions are: what do you leave in people's heart? A sad memory or a sweet one?

If I was bad to her, she wouldn't think of naming her son after me.
I'm not the best, but we must endeavour to leave good memories in whatever we do.

Always do share to inspire others, thanks...

Written By Barr. Charles Dennis

WHY YOUR MAN BEATS YOU?

Barr. Emeka Emmy Ugwuonye, the Founder of the Due Process Advocates (DPA) writes:

WHY YOUR MAN BEATS YOU?

This is the biggest question and one that is impossible to answer. Some will tell you he beats you because of your mouth - you talk too much and that before he could say one, you have said ten. Then he beats you for that. 

What a joke! Have you considered what he will do when you ignore him? Indeed, he will be more offended if you keep quiet when he is talking to you or about you. It means you are ignoring him. It means you are disrespecting him. The beating for that is worse. 

Now, try to walk away when he is angry and you. Then you will know that he doesn't like it for people to walk away while he is talking to them. The beating for that is severe. 

Okay, what do you do? Try to beg him when he is angry. Then you will remember the case of the lady being beaten so badly by her man even though she was saying to him, all the time: "Baby, please!". 

Well, try to complain to your father or even his own parents. Then you will see that he doesn't like it when you take family problems outside the family. 

What am I trying to say? It is not your fault that he beats you. Stop blaming yourself and searching for excuses for him. He is beating you because he is a very bad person and he believes there is no consequence. Once we are able to put him in prison, he will not try that again with his next wife.

SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

By Emeka Ugwuonye, Esquire

In addition, he beats you not because it's your fault, but because he's a coward.

SHE IS HALF OF YOU!

Every religion protects women. Protecting women should just be a religion. And when it's a religion, there's no doubt you'll respect it and protect every woman around you.

Your woman is your companion; your soulmate. She's half of you, and any moment you pierce her heart with abuses, there's no doubt you do same to yourself.

Know it today, that a man who puts smiles in the face of his woman, always do same to himself. But a man who resorts in treating his woman so disdainfully, has, in turn, denied himself her God-given treasures and potentials. For, a woman who's embittered in the heart, can never offer the sweetness she's made of.

A happy wife, no doubt, guarantees a happy home. Because, in reality, women are the souls and controllers of the family. You don't need to neglect this and still hope for peace in your home. Only real men know this. But a man who's just 'manly' will argue this.                                                                                 

Written By Barr. Charles Dennis

***26 LIFE PRINCIPLES***

* 💫26 LIFE PRINCIPLES*
⚏⚏⚏⚏⚏⚏⚏⚏⚏⚏
A
⚏
*ACCEPT*
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they’ve
made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs,
motives, or actions.
B
⚏
*BREAK AWAY*
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what
you hope to accomplish with your life.
C
⚏
*CREATE*
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes,
dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
D
⚏
*DECIDE*
Decide that you’ll be successful and happy come what
may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only
minor obstacles along the way.
E
⚏
*EXPLORE*
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and
you have much to give. And every time you try something
new, you’ll learn more about yourself.
F
⚏
*FORGIVE*
Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and
grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes
mistakes.
G
⚏
*GROW*
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer
hurt you or stand in your way.
H
⚏
*HOPE*
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible
as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I
⚏
*IGNORE*
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead
on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your
past success is only a small inkling of what the future
holds.
J
⚏
*JOURNEY*
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining
open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, an
you’ll grow.
K
⚏
*KNOW*
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always
get better. The warmth of spring always follows the
harshest winter.
L
⚏
*LOVE*
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your
heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in
your heart, there’s room for endless happiness.
M
⚏
*MANAGE*
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you’ll
suffer less stress and worry. Then you’ll be able to focus
on the important things in life.
N
⚏
*NOTICE*
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering.
Offer your assistance when possible, and always your
kindness and understanding.
O
⚏
*OPEN*
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even
during the worst of times, there’s still much to be thankful
for.
P
⚏
*PLAY*
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means
nothing without happiness.
Q
⚏
*QUESTION*
Ask many questions, because you’re here to learn.
R
⚏
*RELAX*
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember
that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S
⚏
*SHARE*
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others.
Everything that you invest in others will return to you many
times over.
T
⚏
*TRY*
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try
anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U
⚏
*USE*
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has
no value. Talent that’s used bill bring unexpected rewards.
V
⚏
*VALUE*
Value the friends and family members who have supported
and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W
⚏
*WORK*
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but
never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every
sunrise offers a second chance.
X
⚏
*X-RAY*
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you’ll
see the goodness and beauty within.
Y
⚏
*YIELD*
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain
dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.
Z
*ZOOM*
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears
its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals.
Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter
tomorrow.

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I was blessed with the message below and thought to share it:-

*As a carpenter went home after shutting down his workshop, a black poisonous cobra entered his work shop.*

_The cobra was hungry and hoped to find its supper lurking somewhere within. It slithered from one end to another and accidentally bumped into a double-edged metal axe and got very slightly injured._

*In anger and seeking revenge, the snake bit the axe with full force. What could a bite do to a metallic axe? Instead the cobra's mouth started bleeding.*

_Out of fury and arrogance, the cobra tried its best to strangle and kill the object that was causing it pain by wrapping itself very tightly around the blades.

*The next day when the carpenter opened the workshop, he found a seriously cut, dead cobra wrapped around the axe blades.*

_The cobra died not because of someone else's fault but faced these consequences merely because of its own anger and wrath.

*Sometimes when angry, we try to cause harm to others but as time passes by, we realise that we have caused more harm to ourselves.*

_For a happy life, it's best we should learn to ignore and overlook some things, people, incidents, affairs and matters._

*It is not necessary that we show a reaction to everything. Step back and ask yourself if the matter is really worth responding or reacting to.*

_People that show no inclination to change, are best handled with silence and prayer.

* It really touched me and helped me to take some decision.                                                          
I hope it blesses you too..

WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING

WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING
Mummy’s boy, you are now a man. Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more than you love me. Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words to guide you.
There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were screaming, Tempers were high. I was angry and He was angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked, He looked at me asking how dare I call him that, Immediately started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy, I called him all sort of name. Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.
My Son, If your father had hit me and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here with me today? How will you regard him as your father? Would you have been proud of him or would you be blaming me for calling him names? Never hit your wife! No matter the provocation just walk away and things will be normal. Whenever she offends you, think of this story I just told you, it could have been your mum!
Before I forget, after he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favorite food, yes you know he loves Pounded yam & Vegetable soup right? After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.
There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hates her, it is your duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle Yusuf, never liked me. But your father was always supportive until his perception changed.
There was a day your Father was going to host the owner of his company and friends. They were three of them. That day I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks. When the table was set and food was served. Everyone started eating. Then I remembered I did not add salt in the food. I was embarrassed. Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body. He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed! The guests understood and he asked me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt. After the guest left, he went on his knees and asked God to forgive him for lying.
Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don’t know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!
Now let me talk to you about Sex. You see Sex is a wonderful thing. Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and need Sex more than you do. There were days, I needed Sex more than your father and there were days he needed it more than me but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need you. Don’t always think of your self.
There was a time things were hard and I needed to do two jobs to support your father. One night I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood. He try to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he need me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understand me better. He stopped and then started telling me stories until I fell asleep.
My son, Sex is best enjoyed when the two parties are physically and mentally ready for it. Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.
Make it a habit to go anywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her. If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife then be very careful. Use wisdom.
I know you love mummy… I know you tell me all your problems. But now things will be different.
Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.
When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately. Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it. Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.
Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me with your wife every month!
I know you will have a happy home. You will always be mummy’s boy. God will bless your home.                                                                          Please  don't forget God, pray and seek His assistance always..
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RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

No matter how your woman may have annoyed you, do not run away from your responsibility to care for her.

A man, who admires the beauties of other women, should try to make his own woman look like them, or even better. However, no woman should be so dependant on her man.

A real man eliminates all the doubts of future on his woman's mind and reassures her that soon everything will be alright. But only a real woman will easily understand and believe.

A real man controls the temperaments of his woman by explaining more, not by arguing more.

Charles Dennis, Esq.

Signs of Aging...

Signs of aging -
Written by a confident lady ....

After a meeting, I was coming out of a hotel and I was looking for my car keys. They were not in my pockets. A quick search in the meeting room, it wasn't there too.

Suddenly I realized I must have left them in the car.

My husband has shouted many times for leaving the keys in the ignition.

My theory is the ignition is the best place not to lose them .......
His theory is the car will be stolen if left at the ignition key slot !

Immediately, I rushed to the parking lot and came to a terrifying conclusion .....
His theory was right. The parking lot was empty 😱😞😞.

I immediately called the police. I gave them my location, description of the car, place I parked, etc. I equally confessed that I had left my keys in the car, and that the car had been stolen.

Then I made the most difficult call of all, to my husband, 
"Honey (I stammered ; I always call him 'honey' in times like these ) , I left my keys in the car .... and it has been stolen."

There was a big silence. I thought the call had been dropped, but then I heard his voice.
"Idiot", he shouted, "I dropped you at the hotel !"

Now it was my time to be silent. Embarrassed, and happy as well, I said, "Well, then pls come and get me."

He shouted again, "I will, as soon as I convince this policeman, that I have not stolen your car."

Don't laugh alone....

MARRIAGE TIPS FROM CHARLES DENNIS, Esq

There's nothing better than waiting a little longer to marry the right person, than being quickly taken by the wrong person.

Marriage ought to be an everlasting crown, and no-one wishes to be dethroned along the line.

Marriage is the sweetest engagement, though not devoid of its peculiar bitterness, but no-one wishes to be embittered forever.

Do not take the one kept for another, and do not also foolishly abandon yours for another on flimsy reason(s).

When the right person comes or proposes, your inner heart won't fail in signaling you.

Take the beauties of the heart first before considering those of the body. Because the beauties of the body might be regretted in the long run.

Do not be enchanted by only what you see, but mainly what you feel.
There's no human with all the qualities, not even you.

Good morning, friends!

Charles Dennis, Esq.

Things to remember as you go through life....

Remember the following as you go through life.

1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I.

To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really will be good to you. You have to be careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.

2. No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess.

Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you anymore, or when you lose what you wanted the most.

3. Life is short.
When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.

4. Love is nothing but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness.

Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.

5. A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.

One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags !

6. I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither  would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether  you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.

7. You honour your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.

8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years , but could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch !

9. No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.

What lessons do you obtain from whatching this short video??

35 THINGS LADIES WANT!

Agunwa Oluchi wrote:

35 THINGS LADIES WANT

1. When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
2. When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy because she thinks she's stronger than you, grab her and don't let go.
3. When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her.
4. When she's quiet, ask her what's wrong.
5. When she ignores you, give her your attention.
6. When she pulls away, pull her back.
7. When you see her at her worst, tell her she's beautiful.
8. When you see her start crying, just hold her and don't say a word.
9. When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
10. When she's scared, protect her.
11. When she steals your favorite cap, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.
12. When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
13. When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
14. When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up.
15. When she says she loves you, she really does more than  you can understand.
16. When she grabs at your hands, hold her's and play with her fingers.
17. When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
18. When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
19. Trust her.
20. When she looks at you in your eyes, don't look away until she does.
21. When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.
22. When she shares this post, she wants you to read it.
23. Stay on the phone with her, even if she's not saying anything.
24. When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go.
25. When she says she's okay, don't believe it. Talk with her because ten years later, she'll remember you.
26. Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
27. Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
28. Stay up with her all night when she's sick.
29. Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show, even if you think it's stupid.
30. Give her your world.
31. Let her wear your clothes.
32. When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
33. Let her know she's important.
34. Don't talk about other girls around her.
35. Kiss her in the pouring rain.

YEAH! I know such guys are hard to
find... But one may just be in this forum with you.