Eby Amanda Pius-Urum writes:
"Dear potential hubby,
On our wedding day. I will gladly and proudly wear the wedding gown that will be made by me. I will glow like the morning sun and I will watch you smile from ear to ear while we walk down the aisle.
Before then, our wedding guests will just be 28 plus me and you, that's 30. You have 14 slot while I have 14 too. I want to remind you that there will be no community wedding. For the fear of plastic coolers is the beginning of comfort."
Eby Amanda.
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Therefore, every prospective marriage partners must cut their clothes according to their sizes.
Don't force your man to spend more than he budgeted. Do not emulate the classy wedding ceremonies you see on your TV screen, or, from the politicians and celebrities. Encourage him by planning with him with the little he has. Your wedding reception must not be in Sheraton hotels or Transcorp Hilton hotels. You can organize a beautiful and wonderful wedding ceremony with just a little resources.
Sometimes you realize that most men who married their wives when it was hard, respect their wives most. Though some are so carried away that they later forget the hard days.
A man I met two weeks ago told me that three years ago, he organized his marriage ceremony with only N180,000 in his bank account. But today, he can boast of 2 residential buildings in this city of Abuja, 3 cars and some other money yielding investments.
He told me how his wife managed the N180,000 for the wedding, because he actually explained everything to her and she understood, because of the LIGHT she saw in him.
Now, how many women want to marry such man; a half-made man; a yet-to-be-blossomed man?
How many can see Light in their men? How many can see future?
How many will believe in their men, even at this odd time?
Have you been waiting for the President's son to come seek your hands in marriage?
Are you on a high horse and can't come down?
Have you lost your real husband due to your wishes and desires for a perfect and an already made man?
It is more honourable to joyfully and peaceful enjoy the golds you mined with your man, than to apprehensively sit on the one already beautified before your emergence. Sometimes, you don't have the right or convenience to talk, because, you didn't contribute anything.
However, only a foolish man will treat his wife disdainfully just because he already made the money before she came.
Love your partner because of the future you have foreseen in him, not just for what you see now.
Be committed because you love him. Give the fullness of the required time, because you so much believe in him.
Both of you should join hands to make reality out of the little you have.
Yes, no-one will have sugar in his or her mouth and spit it out, unless he/she is diabetic. But you shouldn't abandon the one in your life because of the little he has now. You must foresee and discern his future, then take a good stand.
Charles Dennis, Esq.
"Dear potential hubby,
On our wedding day. I will gladly and proudly wear the wedding gown that will be made by me. I will glow like the morning sun and I will watch you smile from ear to ear while we walk down the aisle.
Before then, our wedding guests will just be 28 plus me and you, that's 30. You have 14 slot while I have 14 too. I want to remind you that there will be no community wedding. For the fear of plastic coolers is the beginning of comfort."
Eby Amanda.
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Therefore, every prospective marriage partners must cut their clothes according to their sizes.
Don't force your man to spend more than he budgeted. Do not emulate the classy wedding ceremonies you see on your TV screen, or, from the politicians and celebrities. Encourage him by planning with him with the little he has. Your wedding reception must not be in Sheraton hotels or Transcorp Hilton hotels. You can organize a beautiful and wonderful wedding ceremony with just a little resources.
Sometimes you realize that most men who married their wives when it was hard, respect their wives most. Though some are so carried away that they later forget the hard days.
A man I met two weeks ago told me that three years ago, he organized his marriage ceremony with only N180,000 in his bank account. But today, he can boast of 2 residential buildings in this city of Abuja, 3 cars and some other money yielding investments.
He told me how his wife managed the N180,000 for the wedding, because he actually explained everything to her and she understood, because of the LIGHT she saw in him.
Now, how many women want to marry such man; a half-made man; a yet-to-be-blossomed man?
How many can see Light in their men? How many can see future?
How many will believe in their men, even at this odd time?
Have you been waiting for the President's son to come seek your hands in marriage?
Are you on a high horse and can't come down?
Have you lost your real husband due to your wishes and desires for a perfect and an already made man?
It is more honourable to joyfully and peaceful enjoy the golds you mined with your man, than to apprehensively sit on the one already beautified before your emergence. Sometimes, you don't have the right or convenience to talk, because, you didn't contribute anything.
However, only a foolish man will treat his wife disdainfully just because he already made the money before she came.
Love your partner because of the future you have foreseen in him, not just for what you see now.
Be committed because you love him. Give the fullness of the required time, because you so much believe in him.
Both of you should join hands to make reality out of the little you have.
Yes, no-one will have sugar in his or her mouth and spit it out, unless he/she is diabetic. But you shouldn't abandon the one in your life because of the little he has now. You must foresee and discern his future, then take a good stand.
Charles Dennis, Esq.
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