Tuesday 29 September 2015

WATCH OUT FOR DOUBT, DON'T GIVE IN TO IT! (2)


WATCH OUT FOR DOUBT, DON'T GIVE IN TO IT!

Most times when you doubt, you make wrong decisions. One of your greatest enemies is doubt. What do you do with it, you put it in where it should be. When you key into doubt, it stops you from the realisation of your dreams. Never doubt your ability.

 Never doubt what you can do. People may doubt you capacity to do things. Never give in to it. Great men doubted, but at a point they have to settle with what God said. Sometimes due to several mistakes, failures and uncertainties, we doubt.

 Again, what can dissolve doubt is affirmation. Doubt is actually a false statement lodged in your mind. So, to counter the false statement is to affirm what is true. Only true affirmation can checkmate doubt.
If  the Wright Brothers had given in to doubt, probably there won't be any Aeroplane. If Thomas Edison had given in to doubt, we won't have electricity. In the course of pursuing your goals, doubt will creep in, never give in. Conquer doubt so it doesn't conquer you.

Motivate your mind daily to cross over that boundary in your life. Doubt can only cause you fear and failure. So today, make that one choice that you surely will overcome your doubt, your fears and with a great resolution and determination you will win!
See you at the top.
                     
                                                                                                                  Oladoyin Olalakon

Saturday 26 September 2015

FEATURES OF LOVE



                                              FEATURES OF LOVE


  • If you truly love someone, his or her mistakes  never discourages you, because it is the mind that gets angry, the heart still loves and cares, though.

  • love does not make reckless statements, even if not appreciated by the recipient of his goodwill. It does not lament nor wait to be praised...it does good because love is kind.

  • love does not retain feud for a longer time. Love forgives in secret without waiting for apologies. It does not be at odds.

  • Love leads reconciliation bid, even as a victim of the wrong. It compromises and does this for the sake of the love, and to protect and sustain his or her relationship.

  • Love overshadows and eschews all ills and resentments, with the bid to sustain its status. Love does not stand akimbo and watch  his/her relationship crumble.

  • Love does not think of walking away. It reconciles before it gets out of hand, because from the outset, it desires to live and love forever.

  • Love takes the blame without regrets to prove its reality and real substance.

  • Love willl avoid anything that will make the other party angry. It tip-toes to avoid noise making or creating doubts.

  • Love rekindles and renew a dying relationship. It sparks life into the parties feelings again and leaves them with its sweetness; waxing younger, sweeter and stronger day-by-day.

  • Love appreciates the gestures of the other partner, and spurs the heart for more. It wets the heart of the other, yearning for more opportunities to do more gestures.


  • If your partner is mature enough to play the game of love, then he/she must also be mature enough not to let his/her friends bring distarction between both of you. Love does not listen to gossip or heresays. It forgives, even after finding the truth.

  • Love creates commitment and overshadows side-talks.

  • Love does not wither in the wake of burdens. So, your partner busy schedules should not make him or her change.

  • Love does not grumble whenever it is anything that concerns its partner. he/she feels so happy doing it for love. At worst he/she explains more.

  • Love reshapes the odd lifestyle of the partner and makes them think of future and behave better.

  • Love reproduces love. It gives birth to futre love and lovers. It teaches the offspring the ways to love.

  • Love sweetens the heart of its custodians. It elongates the life of the lovers.

  • Love dominates the hearts of its beares, with more thoughts and feelings of oneness.

  • Love thinks and plans about the pinnacle of its existence: a thought of living together forever.

  • Love is life and love of life. It makes the custodians feel alive.

  • I wonder what life would've been without love...some hearts would've been choked, dried and dead.



                                                                                                                                  Charles C. Dennis

WATCH OUT AND NEVER GIVE IN TO DOUBT

Nothing deflates your efficiency and capacity to rise to the top like doubt. Doubt is like having a deflated ball or tyre. What can you do with it? The ball moves to the direction it shouldn't go to, likewise the tyre, movement is slowed down. Never be a perpetual doubter, it limits your rising to the top. When doubts creeps in affirm positive statement or word. It will dissolve doubt within a twinkle of an eye. Watch out and never give in to doubt! See you at the top!


                                                                                                                      OLADOYIN OLALAKON
 
                                                                              

Thursday 24 September 2015

QUOTES OF LOVE

The most beautiful feeling ever felt is that of when in love and when you are loved by someone deeply. There is a graet courage that comes with love, enriching our hearts and giving us a reason to live ("Where there is love, there is life." Mahatma Ghandi). 
Below, are some of the best quotes of various personalities pertaining love.
Get yourself inspired by these awesome quotes.


                      

1. "You know you are in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

                                                                                                                                         Dr. Suess

2. "Love makes your soul crawl out from it's hiding place."
                                                                                                                                   Zora Neale Hurston

3. "I am selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
                                                                                                                                   Marilyn Monroe

4. "Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who love, time is eternity."
                                                                                                                                    Henry Van Dyke

5. "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you."
                                                                                                                                    Elbert Hubbard

6. "Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none."
                                                                                                                                 William Shakespeare

7. "Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible. It can not be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment."
                                                                                                                                  Babara de Angelis

8. "Love yourself first and everything else falls to line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
                                                                                                                                  Lucille Ball

9. " Love is a better teacher than duty." 
                                                                                                                                  Albert Einsten

10. "What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us."
                                                                                                                                  Helen Keller

11. "Love is when the other person's happiness is more than your own."
                                                                                                                            H.  Jackson Brown, Jr.

12. "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."
                                                                                                                                   Laozi

13. "It is not lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages."
                                                                                                                           Friedrich Nietzsche

14."Where there is love, there is life."
                                                                                                                                   Mahatma Gandhi

15."So I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you."
                                                                                                                                   Paolo Coelho

16. "Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold."
                                                                                                                                   Zelda Fitzgerald

17. "Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot leave without and know we can not leave within."
                                                                                                                                  James A. Baldwin

18. "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love."
                                                                                                                                  Mother Teresa

19. "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear."
                                                                                                                          Martin Luther King, Jr.

20. "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."
                                                                                                                                  Aristotle

21. "Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war, love is a growing up."
                                                                                                                                James A. Baldwin

22. "Can miles truly seperate you from friends? If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?"
                                                                                                                                 Richard Bach

23. "Gravitational is not responsible for people falling in love."
                                                                                                                                Albert Einsten

24. "To love oneself is the begining of a lifelong romance."
                                                                                                                               Oscar Wilde

25. "When love is not madness, it is not love."
                                                                                                                   Pedro Calderon de la Barca

26. "Love is a game that two can play and both win."
                                                                                                                                 Eva Gabor

27. "Everything is clearer when in love."
                                                                                                                                 John Lennon

28. "Who, being loved, is poor?"
                                                                                                                                  Oscar Wilde

29. "I can live without money, but I cannot live without love."
                                                                                                                                  Judy Garland

30. "The giving of love is an education in itself."
                                                                                                                               Eleanor Roosevelt

31. "The love we give, is the only love we keep."
                                                                                                                               Elbert Hubbard

32. "We love life, not because we are used to living but because we are used to loving."
                                                                                                                               Friedrich Nietzsche

33. "Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the begining of a flame, very pretty, often hurt and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our hearts becomes as coals, deep burning and unquenchable."
                                                                                                                               Bruce Lee

34. "There are more people who wish to be loved than there are who are willing to love."
                                                                                                                               Nicholas Chamfort

35. "Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the begining of love."
                                                                                                                               Mother Teresa
 

Sunday 20 September 2015

EXPLORE YOUR WORLD OF IMAGINATION

Explore your world of imagination;

In your world of imagination you are not limited. In your world of imagination you are not creating rather every thing has been completed . I tell people what's possible is what you thought about. What's possible is what you imagine. What is impossible is what you never thought about or imagine.

People usually think imagination is mere fantasy because it is so easy. Again, in your world of imagination you find no obstacles. It means that what you are faced with; your present state is infinitesimal compared to what lies inside of you. Always affirm positive words to your life.

Positive words remove negative attitude and negative thoughts. I like what Apostle Paul said" God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or imagine according to the power that works in you Ephesians 3:20. To bring your imagination to reality depend on the supernatural. Depend on God. See you at the top.

                                                                                                                     By Olalakon Oladoyin

Barcelona 4-1 Levante: Messi misses penalty as the Cartalans ended up victorious

The Argentina international displayed mixed form from the penalty spot whilst goals from Marc Bartra and Neymar helped the home side to victory                                                          

 Second half goals from Marc Bartra, Neymar and  Messi helped Barcelona to a 4-1 La Liga win over Levante at Camp Nou on Sunday, with the Argentine superstar's penalty miss not proving decisive.

The Catalans created numerous chances in the opening 45 minutes, yet sloppy finishing prevented them from opening the scoring.


Victor Casadesus did pull one back for Levante, but they were never able to really threaten Barca in the remainder of the game.

Messi, having already netted from 12 yards, blasted a second penalty over the crossbar in the 75th minute but did double his tally with a trademark finish right at the end.

The victory sees Barcelona to the top of the table again with a maximum 12 points from four games.

Barca did not need long to open up the Levante defence as Messi found Munir after a quick combination with Neymar, but the young attacker only hit the side-netting in the sixth minute.

Messi tried his luck himself just minutes later after a mazy dribble, but his first attempt was blocked by a defender, while his second lacked the power to trouble Ruben between the sticks.

The hosts continued to push for the opener as Neymar, Munir and Sandro were all guilty of wasting opportunities.

Barca were fortunate not to concede after they were hit on the counter-attack, with Nabil Ghilas losing his cool after racing past Javier Mascherano, blasting his shot wide from close range. 
 But the deadlock was finally broken in the 50th minute and, unsurprisingly, Messi was right at the heart of it as he sent in an inch-perfect cross for Bartra and the defender chested it down before tapping home from close range.

In celebration, Bartra held up the shirt of team-mate Rafinha, who suffered a serious knee injury in the midweek Champions League draw at Roma.

Things went from bad to worse for the visitors after the opener and Neymar soon made it 2-0. Ruben failed to punch clear Dani Alves' cross and the former Santos man added his name to the scoresheet after his initial attempt was blocked by a defender.

All that was missing for Barca was a goal from Messi, but the 28-year-old righted that wrong at the hour-mark when Neymar earned a penalty after he was brought down by Angel Trujillo, allowing Messi to hammer home from 12 yards.

The away side refused to give up, however, and reduced the deficit in the 65th minute as Marc-Andre ter Stegen misjudged a cross from the left and Casadesus had little trouble finding the empty net.

After earning a second penalty, Messi was unable to hit the target this time but he did clinch his brace in the 90th minute with a crisp low finish into the bottom-left corner to cap a resounding success.


Southampton 2-3 Manchester United: Martial and Mata seals St Mary's triumph

The young Frenchman bagged a double and the Spaniard got on the scoresheet to ensure Graziano Pelle's double could not salvage a point for the Saint
Anthony Martial netted a double to guide Manchester United to a 3-2 victory at Southampton in Sunday's Premier League encounter.
It was all Southampton in the opening stages of the game and the hosts deservedly grabbed the lead via Graziano Pelle, who saw another attempt hit the post as Ronald Koeman's side struggled to add a second.
United restored parity in the 34th minute when Martial got his first of the game and the France international again showed his composure after the break when he made it two - his third in as many matches for the club.
Juan Mata poured even more salt in the hosts' wounds halfway through the second half, with Pelle's late strike not enough to spark a comeback.
Sunday's results see Manchester United climb to second spot in the table with 13 points from six games, just two points behind leaders and local rivals City. 
Southampton started the match with attacking intentions and got their first clear chance of the game after 10 minutes. Pelle set up Dusan Tadic at the back post, but the Serbia international fired just wide.


The hosts did open the scoring shortly after, though, via Pelle. David de Gea pulled off a great save to deny Sadio Mane from close range after the latter hit a fine cross from James Ward-Prowse goalbound, yet the Italy international was alert to tap home the rebound.
Pelle nearly doubled his side’s lead in the 15th minute as Southampton pushed for a second. Oriol Romeu reached the former Feyenoord man in the area, but he was unlucky to see his shot hit the upright.
 
Memphis Depay then got involved for United, setting up Martial after skipping past his opponent down the left, only for the young Frenchman to blast his shot from 18 yards out over the bar.
Southampton felt they deserved a penalty when Marcos Rojo seemingly brought down Tadic inside the box, but referee Mark Clattenburg was having none of it.

Louis van Gaal’s men then pulled level through Martial. Maya Yoshida prevented Juan Mata – who appeared to stray into an offside position in the build-up to the goal - from getting a shot in, but the ball bounced into the new arrival's feet and he shrugged off his marker before coolly slotting home.
Martial once more showed his class shortly after the interval when he took advantage of a mistake from Yoshida. The Japanese defender played a poor backpass and the ex-Monaco striker kept his cool in front of Maarten Stekelenburg to make it 2-1.

Jose Fonte nearly levelled matters just minutes later with a powerful header after Tadic’s corner, but De Gea denied the centre-back with a stunning reflex save.
United then put the match to bed in the 68th minute. Bastian Schweinsteiger set up Memphis inside the area and the Dutchman twisted beyond his marker before hitting the post, with Mata pouncing on the rebound for his side's third.

Southampton did get a second goal with four minutes left on the clock - Pelle heading home a cross from Mane - but United played out the game to bag the full three points.

Son can be a Tottenham hero - Pochettino

The club's new signing followed up his midweek double in the Europa League with the winner at White Hart Lane as the hosts overcame Alan Pardew'
Mauricio Pochettino believes Son Heung-min can become a Tottenham hero after he scored the only goal of the game in their Premier League win over Crystal Palace .

The South Korea international scored twice as Pochettino's men came from behind to beat Qarabag 3-1 in the Europa League on Thursday and was on target again in Sunday's 1-0 triumph over Palace at White Hart Lane.

Son raced away on the left to score the game's only goal as Tottenham made it five matches without defeat in all competitions.

The coach lauded his new signing's impact and suggested that his attributes could see him go on to achieve great things with the north London outfit.

"[Can Son be] Another hero? Yes, why not!" Pochettino told reporters.
"Against Qarabag he scored twice and now he scored the winning goal. The energy he showed was amazing and because of that I think our supporters are very happy with him.

"Son is a player that we followed for a long time. He can play in lots of different positions in attack.

"At all clubs, when you sign a player the expectation is big, and I'm happy because he's scored twice on Thursday and again today.

"We wanted to sign him because it's a profile that we like. He shows a lot of energy and presses high with a high tempo, and this is one of the skills he has."

The Argentinian also revealed that Son endeared himself to his new colleagues by sharing cuisine from his native South Korea with them.

"You can see he's a very friendly boy and after one week with the team he brought very good Korean food to the training ground. It shows he's a very friendly, very humble person," Pochettino added.

"It was very good. It's between Chinese and Japanese. I had a lot, a big dish.s side














Tuesday 15 September 2015

THINGS WORK OUT


THINGS WORK OUT

Because it rains when we wish it wouldn't, 

Because men do what they often shouldn't, 

Because crops fail and plants go wrong,

Some of us grumble all day long.

But somehow,  in spite of the care and doubt,

It seems all things work out.


Because we lose where we hoped to gain,

Because we suffer a little pain,

Because we work when we'd like to play,

Some of us whimper along life's way.

But somehow,  as days always follows the night, 

Most of our troubles work out all right.


Because we can not forever smile,

Because we must trudge in the dust awhile, 

Because we think the way is long,

Some of us whimper that's life all wrong.

But somehow we live and our sky grows bright,

And everything seems to work out all right.


So bend to your trouble and meet your care, 

For the clouds must break, and the sky grow fair,

Let the rain come down, as it must and will,

But keep on working and hoping still,

For in spite of the grumblers who stand about,

Somehow, it seems, all things work out.



                                                                                                                              Edgar Guest


41 HIGHLY INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES OF BENJAMIN FRANKLIN

41 QUOTES OF BENJAMIN FRANKLIN

An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest.....

1. To be humble to superiors is duty, to equals courtesy, to inferiors nobleness.

2. Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing.

3. It is the working man who is the happy man. It is the idle man who is the miserable man.

4. Genius without education is like silver in the mine.

5. A small leak can sink a great ship.

6. Trouble springs from idleness and grievious toil from needless ease.

7. Those who would give up essential liberty, to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety.

8. There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one's self.

9. The things which hurt, instruct.

10. He that lieth down with dogs shall rise up with fleas.

11. Glass, china, and reputation are easily cracked, and never mended well.

12. The constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself.

13. The way to see by faith is to shut the eye of reason.

14. He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.

15. Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time; for that's the stuff life is made of.

16. The heart of a fool is in his mouth, but the mouth of a wise man is in his heart.

17. Many a man thinks he is buying  pleasure, when he is really selling himself to it.

18. Energy and persistence alter all things.

19. Most people return small favors, acknowledge medium ones and repay greater ones.

20. Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.

21. Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember,  involve me and I learn.

22. He that can have patience can have what he will.

23. A penny saved is a penny earned.

24. You may delay, but time will not.

25. In wine there is wisdom, in beer there is freedom, in water there is bacteria.

26. Fear not death for the sooner we die, the longer we shall be immortal.

27. Never ruin an apology with an excuse.

28. Many people die at twenty five and aren't buried until they are seventy five.

29. I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.

30. We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid.

31. Justice will not be served until those who are unaffected are as outraged as those who are.

32. Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.

33. By failing to prepare you are preparing to fail.

34. How many observe Christ's birthday!
      How few, His percepts!

35. Hide not your talents, they for use were made, what's a sundial in the shade?

36. Well done is better than well said.

37. Lost time is never found again.

38. Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn.

39. It is the first responsibility for every citizen to question authority. 

40. If all printers were determined not to print anything till they were sure it would offend nobody, there would be very little printed.

41. Instead of cursing the darkness, light a candle.



Saturday 12 September 2015

The Biography of Benjamin Franklin; The man who promoted the abolition of slave trade.


The Biography of Benjamin Franklin; The man who promoted the abolition of slave trade


Benjamin Franklin was born in 1706 at Boston. He was the 10th son of a soap and candlemaker. He obtained some formal education but was self-taught basically. He served as an apprenticeship to his father between the ages of 10 and 12. After which, he went to work for his half brother James, a printer.

In 1721, the latter founded the New England Courant, the 4th newspapers in the colonies. Franklin secretly contributed 14 essays to it, his first published writings.

In 1723, due to dissension with his half-brother,Franklin moved to Philadelphia, where he obtained employment as a printer. He spent just a year there and then sailed to London for 2 more years. Back in Philadelphia, he rose rapidly in the printing industry. He published The Pennyslvania Gazette (1730-1748), which had been founded by another man in 1728, but his most successful literary venture was the annual Poor Richard's Almanac (1733-1758). It won a popularity in the colonies second only to the Bible, and its fame eventually spread to Europe.


In 1730, Franklin had taken a common-law wife, Deborah Read, who was to bear him a son and daughter, and he also apparently had children with another nameless woman out of wedlock. By 1748 he had achieved financial independence and gained recognition for his philantrophy and the stimulus he provided to such civic causes as libraries, educational institutions,  and hospitals. Energetic and tireless, he also found time to pursue his interest in science, as well as to enter politics.

In the year 1736-1751, he served as a clerk, 1751-1764 as a member of the colonial legislator, 1737-1753 as the deputy postmaster of Philadelphia and in 1753-1774 as the deputy postmaster general of the colonies.

In addition, he represented the Pennyslvania at the Albany Congress (1754), called to unite the colonies during the French and the Indian war. The Congress adopted his "Plan of Union," but the colonial assemblies rejected it because it encroached on their powers.

1757-1762 and 1764-1775, Franklin resided in England, originally in the capacity of agent of Pennyslvania and later for Georgia, New Jersey and Massachusetts.
During the latter period, which coincided with the growth of colonial unrest, he underwent a political metamorphosis.  Until then a contented English man in the outlook, primarily concerned with Pennyslvania provincial politics, he distrusted popular movements and saw little purposes to be served in carrying principles to the extremes. Until the issue of palamentary taxation undermined the old alliances, he led the Quaker party attack on the Anglican proprietary party and its Presbyterian frontier allies. His purpose throughout the years at London in fact had been displacement of the Penn family administration by royal authority-the conversion of the province from a proprietary to a royal colony.

It was during the Stamp Act crisis that Franklin evolved from leader of a shattered provincial party's faction to celebrated spokesman at London for American rights.
Although as agent for Pennyslvania he opposed by every conceivable means the enactment of the bill in 1765, he did not at first realize the depth of colonial hostility. He regarded passage as unavoidable and preferred to submit to it while actually working for its repeal.

Franklin's nomination of a friend and political ally as stamp distributor for Pennyslvania,  coupled with his apparent acceptance of the legislation, armed his proprietary opponents with explosive issues. Their energetic exploitation of them endangered his reputation at home until reliable information was published demostrating his unabated opposition to the act. Mob resentment threatened his family and home in Philadelphia until his tradesman supporters rallied against it.
Subsequently,  Franklin's defence of the American positiob in the House of Commons during the debates over the Stamp Acts repeal brought back his prestige at home.

May 1775, Franklin returned to Philadelphia and he became a distinguished member of the Continental Congress. Thirteen months later, he served in the committee that drafted the Declaration of Independence. He subsequently contributed to the government in other important ways. He was the general postmaster, and took over the duties of president of the Pennyslvania constitutional convention.

After his return, within less than a year and a half, Franklin set sail once again for Europe, where he started a career as a diplomat that would occupy him for the most
of his life. In the years 1776-1779, as one of the three commissioners, he directed the negotiations that led to treaties of commerce and alliance with France, where the people adulated him, but he and the other commissioners squabbled constantly.
While he was sole commisssioner to France (1779-1785), he and John Jay and John Adams negotiated the Treaty of Paris (1783), which ended the War of Independence.

In the year 1785, back in the U ited States, Franklin became president of the supreme Executive Council of Pennyslvania.  At the Constitutional Convention, though he did not approve of many aspects of the finished document and was hampered by his age and ill-health, he missed few if any sessions, lent his prestige, soothed passions and compromised dislutes.

In his twilight years, working on his Autobiography, Franklin could look back on a fruitful life as the toast of two continents. Energetic nearly to the last. In the year 1787, he was elected as the first president of Pennyslvania Society for promoting the abolition of slavery- a cause to which he had committed himself to since the 1730s.
His final public act was signing a memorial to Congress recommending dissolution if the slavery system. At the age of 84 in 1790, Franklin passed away in Philadelphia and was laid to rest in Christ  Church Burial Ground.

JUST ONE



 JUST ONE


One song can spark a moment,
One flower can wake the dream
One tree can start a forest,
One bird can herald spring.

One smile begins a friendship,
One handclasp lifts a soul,
One star can guide a ship at sea,
One word can frame the goal.

One vote can change a nation,
One sunbeam lights a room,
One candle wipes out darkness,
One laugh will conquer gloom.

One step must start each journey,
One word must start each prayer,
One hope will raise our spirits,
One touch can show you care.

One voice can speak with wisdom,
One hear can know what's true,
One life can make a difference,
You see, it's up to you!


                                                                                                              Anonymous

My Mystery Moment; No Man Knows Tomorrow


 MY MYSTERY MOMENT ; NO MAN KNOWS TOMORROW


No man knows tomorrow,  it is but a mystery. A mystery which mere mortals are not
Privy to. It's something to hope for, an ideal to strive towards, ever so close but like the wind it slips from grasp, fading further into the distance.

A figment of the imagination it sometimes seems, dangling and taunting ceaselessly, catch me if you dare, it whispers softly. Only but a few can decipher it's cryptic messages, blessed are those who are prepared when opportunity knocks, for only the enlightened can safely navigate it's intricately woven mazes.

Those who are ill- equipped for the rigors and unforgiving  demands of life's battlefield soon find themselves lost in the sea of nothingness,  trapped in a void of stagnation,  lost without even realizing.

Like the alternate plane on the other side of a mirror,  a mirage that feels unattainable.

But with the same confidence with which we breathe, so also do we hope, believing in the realism of that which is not yet manifested. An indisputable truth etched into our deepest reach of our consciousness, a proof of our existence.

No man knows tomorrow, it is but a mystery. Hence, we strive and dream, strive and believe, working ceaselessly,  unrelenting in our pursuits, indefatigable warriors. Holding on to hope and belief.

Stumble and fall though we may, but from the ashes we surely rise. Down and out, weary and bruised, battered and tossed far from our journey's path, but still we strive, clinging tightly to the dazzling light of hope that is tomorrow.

No man knows tomorrow,  it is but a mystery. A mystery long and hard to unravel. All we can do is ensure that our today gives our tomorrow an opportunity to blossom, blossom into something truly remarkable,  comparable to none, akin only to fantasy. Ethereal even, befitting of the divine.

A place of halcyon, where dreams are carefully woven into reality and fantasy made true, where wishes are horses and beggers do truly ride, where passion illuminates our paths and opportunities when harnessed open up access to worlds yet unknown.

And from it belly flows rivers of milk and honey, lush greens and seas of abundance which though at present seems utterly ludicrous, slowly but surely it manifests, as assuredly as the breaking of the dawn.



                                                                                                                Akhigbemen Emmanuel

FAMILY'S LOVE TO THEIR WIVES: MOTHER IN-LAW AND DAUGHTER IN-LAW IN AFRICAN MARRIAGES



FAMILY'S LOVE TO THEIR WIVES: MOTHER IN-LAW AND DAUGHTER IN-LAW IN AFRICAN MARRIAGES.

Mother told me to try and marry a woman she love so much; a lady she will always see and take as her own daughter; a woman she will happily correct whenever she flaws; a woman she will joyfully teach motherly ways; a woman she will flaunt and be proud of.
A lady she will love even before I marry her. A lady that will accept and love her prior to coming in.

As Africans, we all know the jibes and jeers that ensues between mothers in-law and daughters in-law. It's never easy for the both at times.
We have heard about the quarrels, agonies, fights and hatreds that occurs.

To some ladies, they would prefer to marry a man whose mother has died, to avoid facing what her own mother faced, or, what she heard or saw other women experience.

No woman would want to find herself in a lifetime burning furnace. Every woman wants to settle down in a family that promotes peace; where love reigns; where her mother in-law will love her and treat her like her own daughter, not where there will be regrets and face-offs. As a woman, prior to accepting his marriage proposal, you must be able to have read the minds and body languages or attitudes of his people towards you. Not only that of his mother, because, in Africa, a woman is not married to and by her husband alone, but also to and by his relations.

Through their attitudes whenever you pay them premarital-visits, you should be able to ascertain whether you're loved and accepted or not.

You do not need a soothsayer to reveal this to you. The happenings as you near his family members, will convince or discourage you.

Do not knowingly fetch ants infested firewood by yourself.
Do not be blindfolded by only the love professed by your man, because as African tenets demands, he's not alone in that journey.

Do not force yourself into a family you're not welcomed from the onset/ first day of seeing you.
Be bold to ask your man certain questions, especially when you hear some movements and arguments behind the scene. This is to ensure that you're not the reason for their quarrels.

Definitely, your man wont tell you immediately. He will pretend. But use your woman 'power' to get the true answer from him, even if not immediately. Possibly when you leave there. Don't assume that all is well, because you could be the reason for their arguments.

Nobody should ignorantly or naïvely enter into a hellfire.
Marriage should be a peaceful and a joyful ground, not a war front. Not a scene for the display of hatred and immaturity.

Do not just jump into marrying him because he is rich, kind, generous, handsome, or, because he is from a rich family. Think about his family too. It's a lifetime engagement, unless you wish to rush out soon. Unless you can endure the fumes forever.

The love of a mother in-law is very sweet and important, because it will (amongst all) guarantee your happiness, as well as motherly protection upon any eventuality.

The love of a mother in-law to her daughter in-law is almost the same with the love of a mother to her daughter, if it thrives from the onset and lightens the entire family subsequently. The lack of it, is the lack of lots.

Many wives are in this bondage because they did not notice this timely, or, because they were blindfolded by only their man's love. Or, because they wanted to 'gold-dig'.

In Africa, we appreciate
the Doctrine of Extended Family, thus, you can't totally exempt them from your husband's family chart. Therefore, you can't marry only your man, you marry both his family members.

It is true that you must face one or two rancour, no matter what. But you have to try your best too, by being able to timely identify the kind of people you're about to dine and wine with forever, so that you will know how to follow them.

Do not buy a lawsuit with your beauty, or out of your unwise decision.

Be careful, cautious, conscious, discerning and prayerful to avoid dining with beasts. To avoid selling your happiness forever.


CHARLES C. DENNIS

Wednesday 9 September 2015

CLIMB UNTIL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE


CLIMB UNTIL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE


Often your tasks will be many,
And more than you think you can do.
Often the road will be rugged
And the hills insurmountable, too.


But always remember,
The hills ahead
Are never as steep as they seem,


And faith in your heart
Start upward
And climb 'till you reach your dream.


For nothing in life that is worthy
Is ever too hard to achieve
If you have the courage to try it,
And you have the faith to believe.


For faith is a force that is greater
Than knowledge or power or skill,
And many defeats turn to triumph
If you trust in God's wisdom and will.


For faith is a mover of mountains,
There's nothing that God can not do,
So, start out today with faith in your heart,
And climb 'll your dream comes true.


                                                                                                                           Helen Steiner Rice

"SELF-WORTH OF A WOMAN"

SELF WORTH; (Very Deep!!!) In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.

She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter.

I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

 He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

 I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot". Send this to every woman who's worth a lot.... and every man who has the brains to understand!!

                                                                                                                     Michael Ogunbameru

AFFIRMATION


AFFIRMATION;

Imagination is the process that allows you to see the affirmation in your mind. Once you see it in your mind, you'll be closer to achieving it in your life.                 Affirmation not only help to keep you positive, they also stir the power within you. 

Affirmation is a method of affirming something positive in your mind. Affirmation is something you say to take control of your thoughts,emotions, and attitudes. To work well, it should have these five attributes:      
                         
  1. Be uniquely yours.                                   
  2. Be uplifting.                                             
  3. Deal with what's going on at the moment.                                                 
  4. Paint a picture in your mind.                
  5. Touch your heart. (Coiled from Keith Harrell's book, attitude is everything.)

                                                                                                                          Oladoyin Olalakon

WORDS OF WISDOM; NO MAN WAS EVER WISE BY CHANCE_words of Seneca.


WISDOM;

The words of wisdom are the best thoughts and words to live with. They are learnt by the experience of others. Through wisdom one could encompass great knowledge and understanding. It is cheap, sacred and most ordinary. It helps to maximize and get the best out of your life.

QUOTES OF WORDS OF WISDOM;

1. "By associating with wise people you will become wise yourself."
                                                                                                   Menander


2. "Of all parts of wisdom, the practice is the best."

                                                                                                    Ralph W. Sockman

3. "One who understands much displays a greater simplicity of character than one who understands little."

                                                                                                             Alexander Chase

4. "The more a man knows, the more he forgives."

                                                                                                            Catherine the Great

5. "How prone to doubt, how cautious are the wise."

                                                                                                             Homer

6. " A loving heart is the truest of all wisdom."

                                                                                                              Charles Dickens

7. "The larger the island of knowledge, the longer the shore of line of wonder."

                                                                                                             Ralph W. Sockman

8. "Of all parts of wisdom, the practice is the best."

                                                                                                              John Tillotson

9. "No man was ever wise by chance."

                                                                                                            Seneca

10. "A wise man learns by the mistake of others, a fool by his own."

                                                                                                             Latin Proverb

11. "The wise man should prepare for everything that does not lie within his control."

                                                                                                             Pythagoras

12. "The wisdom of nations lies in their proverbs, which are brief and pithy."

                                                                                                             William Penn

13. "Years teach us more than books."

                                                                                                              Bertold Auerbach

14. "The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second is listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others.

                                                                                                               Solomon Ibn Gabriol

15. "Wisdom is better than gold and silver."

                                                                                                                German Proverb

16. "The greatest lesson is that the sacred is in the ordinary,  that is to be found in one's daily life, in one's neighbours,  friends and family,  in one's backyard."

                                                                                                                 Abraham Maslow

17. "Silence does not always mark wisdom."

                                                                                                               Samuel Taylor Coleridge

18. "Wisdom is the sunlight of the soul."

                                                                                                               German Proverb

19. "Do not seek to follow in the footsteps of the men of old, seek what they sought."

                                                                                                               Matsuo Basho

20. "The seat of knowledge is in the head, of wisdom, in the heart."

                                                                                                                William Hazlitt

21. "Learn to hold loosely all that is not eternal."

                                                                                                                A. Maude Royden

Tuesday 8 September 2015

"LIMITATION"



LIMITATION

Franklin Roosevelt said" the only limit to the realisation of tomorrow is the doubts of today."  Never allow anything to limit you from achieving your dreams or goals.

Your limitations aren't strong enough to limit you. Think about what you don't have. Think about what you've been deprived of. They are not strong enough to shift your focus and make you worry.

When you find yourself thinking about what you don't have. When you find yourself worrying over nothing, there's something inside of you. Nobody lacks anything completely. There's something inside. All you need to do is to search through and you will indeed realize that there's something inside of you.

 You have all it takes to be happy at all times while in the cause of pursing your dreams and goal. Let's begin to set our minds on the possibility and not impossibility.  To paraphrase what Einstein said" if you want to be happy tie it to a goal."

 God bless you

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