Wednesday 14 October 2015

"IF YOUR LIFE IS AT RISK, PLEASE THINK TWICE."

IF YOUR LIFE IS AT RISK,  PLEASE THINK TWICE .          


Friends who are so quick to say goodbye, never planned to stay forever.
Friends never say goodbye forever, because they may need each again tomorrow.
Do not imagine the day your love for him or her will end, because love never ends; unless it's not love from the onset.

However, a woman who is being battered by an unrepentant and unremorseful man, should think twice.
Don't wait or endure till he kill or disfigure you. Similarly, a man who's life or destiny is being threatened by his woman, should also think twice.
 
No-one should endure to death.
Only a tree stays after hearing that it would be hewed down.
As a human being, you have to run away or abate it.

Love is not practically blind. Being in love does not make you a simpleton. Only the wise plays the game of love. A man who bullies you when he was dating you would likely give you popped eyes during marriage.
Love does not accommodate this type endurance.

It is true that in Africa, marriage is a sanctity, thus, divorce is alien. But when your man makes you a punching back, what you need is to think twice. Because only the cowards raises their hands against their women. Real men don't do that.

For the fact that I'm of the School of Thought that appreciates marriage as an Endurance Institution, does not stand without an exception. The exception is when your life is at risk.
The foremost advice will be to seek for counselling, prayers and reconciliation bid.
 
The option of divorcing or separating are where the aforementioned trinity measures have been exhausted or resorted to, and the person remains unrepentant.
Not all characters can be changed. Therefore, the ball is in your court, whether or not to endure to death.

Love ought not to be violent, and where it becomes, then questions should be asked; you should think twice.             

The questions are:
For how long would you endure a man who roughs you up in every slight quarrel?, since marriage is an everlasting engagement.
 
For how long would you endure a woman whose mission is to kill your dreams and destiny?
Only the wise can play this game better.

                                                            Written By Charles C. Dennis

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